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Oh Baby – Here We Go Again

Thursday, October 1, 2009 8:24
Posted in category High Risk OB, Preemies, Pregnancy

I’ve written a lot about my other pregnancies, but  for some reason, I just haven’t had a lot to say about baby #4.  It’s probably a combination of morning sickness and the sheer chaos of taking care of 3 kids, a dog and 2 businesses, but I just haven’t had the energy to put this pregnancy down on “paper”.

Today, I got my third glimpse at the newest member of the McNealy clan.  The week leading up to the appointment was filled with a little bit of drama over my perinatologist’s office and their new H1N1 infections control procedures, which quite frankly suck.

I was a little nervous because the circumstances surrounding all of those fantastic flu control policies left me going to the ultrasound alone.  At this point, we have already seen the little guy twice, and we know he is a boy, and he’s growing right on target.  Everything up until today has looked great.

I’ve been doing my progesterone (17P) injections to help prevent the preterm labor which caused our 2nd daughter to arrive 9 weeks early.  I’ve been feeling good, and all of my appointments have been great.  So, I knew if there were any new news at this appointment, it would be the bad kind.

Baby McNealy

Thankfully, baby looks great.  He’s growing well, and the perinatologist is 100% positive that he’s a boy (that bottom left US pic is indeed boy parts)  :)   Unfortunately, things didn’t look as good on my end as they did on his.

*Possible TMI warning* Because of my history of preterm labor, once every two or three weeks, the doctor checks the length of my cervix by ultrasound.  My first check had looked great, but today the sonographer told me my cervix was “shortish”.  As it turns out, my cervix is a whole centimeter shorter than it was at my last ultrasound.  For perspective, we’re only starting out around 3.5cm, so a centimeter is a significant change.  With pressure on my belly, I lost even more length.

So, for now, I have been warned to take it as easy as humanly possible.  If I don’t, I could end up hospitalized on bedrest if my next ultrasound shows further shortening.  With three kids at home who won’t be able to visit because of swine flu precautions, the thought of being stuck in the hospital for weeks is pretty much a nightmare.  On top of that, we have 4 more weeks (I’m 20 weeks today) until the baby will be considered viable.

Right now, I am camped out on the couch.  I’m trying to behave myself, so I ordered my groceries online tonight (thank goodness for King Soopers home delivery), and I decided to skip the trip down to the basement to use our scanner.  That’s why you’ll have to settle for the lousy iPhone photo of my ultrasound pictures.  I’m sure you’ll all live  ;)

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8 Responses to “Oh Baby – Here We Go Again”

  1. Dawn says:

    October 1st, 2009 at 12:11 pm

    Take care! Our thoughts are with you and the baby!

  2. Kristie says:

    October 1st, 2009 at 12:53 pm

    Thanks Dawn! At least everyone knows where to find me for the time being. I’m going to wear a hole in my favorite couch :)

  3. Paula says:

    October 1st, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    Good luck!! How hard is it to “rest” with three kids at home, though? That’s what always killed me about the “bedrest” thing. Yeah, right… My prayers will be with you and the little guy. I dealt with the threat of pre-term labor with all three of my boys, and I never once even delivered before my due date! (It was so nice to meet you at Type-A Mom, by the way!)

  4. Kristie says:

    October 1st, 2009 at 7:02 pm

    Thank you. I really hope this is a false alarm, but so far I’ve only managed to make it to term once. “Bedrest” with all the kids running around is a pretty trying experience. Thankfully, my oldest is quite the little mommy, so she has been a really huge help to me. It was nice meeting you too!

  5. @sweetbabboo says:

    October 1st, 2009 at 8:50 pm

    Oh no. Do take care and rest as much as it motherly possible. Let’s keep that baby cooking. My thoughts are with you and the itty bitty guy.

    -Abby

  6. Mike McMahon says:

    October 3rd, 2009 at 5:11 pm

    Wow! I know you have your hand full. Hang in there. Both of my daughters are pregnant and so far so good. I hope you are able go full term. I’ve really been encouraging my daughters to keep their water intake up since that has so much to do with our bodies.

  7. Nancy Nally says:

    October 8th, 2009 at 8:37 pm

    I follow Rob on Twitter and found your post through his Tweet…sorry to hear this is so complicated for you. :( My pregnancy with my 6yo daughter was extremely high-risk and I know what it is like to be counting those weeks of progress. Just try to think positive and imagine the day when you’ll be yelling at the older three to not break their little brother…and then the day when he gets big enough to break them back. :) Hang in there!

  8. Lisa says:

    October 13th, 2009 at 7:11 pm

    Hi Kristie. I’m sorry that you are having a hard time. I remember the worry and counting the days until viability, then 26, 28 weeks etc. Are you using my injection method? I am curious to how it’s working for you.

    I’m thinking of your family and your new addition.

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